COUPLES

Rory uses a couples approach that helps the marriage heal: partners learn to tune into themselves, their needs, feelings, and habits of relating that produce a negative cycle of interactions. This system provides a structured format for positive and safe communication.  Learn assertiveness skills to prevent resentment, anger, violence, and hopelessness.  Criticism and  emotional distance are replaced with love and positive communication skills. Exercises are often used to develop tolerance for awkward feelings and strong emotions – intimate conflict resolution skills will be developed.

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Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC)  and  Registered Psychotherapist (RP)     
Instructed at: Counsellor Training Institute.     
Certified by:  the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association – CCPA (#8192)  & the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario – CRPO (#002563)  
  

Gottman Approved Member

 Education:  Bachelor of Science, Masters of Education, Graduate Diploma in Couples Counselling, 2 Certificates in Adult Education.  In addition to the requirements for CCPA and CRPO certification, completed a two-year psychotherapy training at EastWind Institute,  and two years of study at Gampo Abbey, Cape Breton and RMSC, Colorado.  
 Specialities: First Nations/Indigenous, Narcissistic Abuse, Adult ADD/ADHD, Anger Management, Workplace Stress, Anxiety, Depression, Stress Reduction, Relationships – Individual & Couples.  PTSD, RCMP, and Military 
  Therapeutic Approaches:   Trained extensively in several psychotherapy models and continues to learn and study:  Post Master’s Graduate Diploma in Couples Therapy.  Recently completed EMDR training and now exploring actively the Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Gottman Method for Couples Therapy.  Many tools from the schools of Person Centred Psychotherapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy, Dream therapy, Narrative Therapy, Drama/Art Therapy, Body/Mind Therapy, and Marriage Therapy.  
  Diverse background:  Presently, and since 2005, in private practice.  Previously served as an Instructor/professor at Counsellor Training Institute (CTI). Rory has experience working with individuals, couples, and families in many different milieus.   He has worked with; victim services, clients with anger management issues, young people and seniors, police/RCMP/ military members and families, victims of harassment and bullying, violent trauma survivors, and military and non-military PTSD sufferers.  He has worked in a residential mental health care setting, a psychiatric hospital, and at a home for alcoholic men in recovery. He lived, worked, and studied at several retreat centres and helped people while they worked to find their their purpose and regain their centre.  He served as the mental health therapist at a northern First Nations community health centre and he has taught mindfulness meditation to many students and clients.  Before moving into social sciences and the helping professions, he had jobs as construction labourer, landscaper, farm hand, and as a junior officer in the Canadian Navy. 
       Rory brings strengths in; teamwork, communication, conflict resolution, adult education, problem-solving, working with mental health consumers, team building, program evaluation, computer skills, and public speaking. With more than 25 years experience in the fields of counselling, psychotherapy, mental health, education, and addictions, he enjoys working with individuals and groups and has been told he has a gift for understanding their needs.   He has lead seminars in treatment programs, done case management, worked with healthcare teams at a psychiatric hospital and at long-term care facilities, organized trainings for health care professionals and facilitated workshops with three educational/advocacy organizations, and served as secretary for his local chapter of the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association.  He has extensive experience leading groups in many healing modalities such as dream work, qigong, guided imagery & visualization, anger management, anxiety and phobia management, self-hypnosis, and sharing circles. Rory has studied and taught several forms of meditation and energy medicine and is familiar with complementary healing principles.  
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*  Reduce Anxiety & Stress  *  Depression * Anger  Management  *  Couples Counselling *  
Narcissistic Abuse *  Support for Emotional Distress   *  Self Esteem    * 
*  Grief & Loss * Addictions * Conflict in Relationships  * ADHD/ADD Coaching  * 
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Book  by  Phone or email:
Call  613-898-1685  and leave message if no answer.  We try to respond to calls and emails within 72 hrs.  Write to [email protected].   If you send times and dates that are good for you,  we can book you in and send you confirmation or send you a few options and you let us know what is best for you..
Fees for services: Payable by cash, cheque, etransfer, or credit card.  HST  not included in fees listed.
  1. Individual Therapy        $195/session  (50 mins)
  2. Couples Therapy           $195/session (50 mins)
Insurance Coverage:
Does not require a doctor’s referral, self referrals are welcome.  Clients funded through VAC and NHIB do not have to pay up front as I can direct bill with them.  Clients are provided with a detailed receipt for insurance and tax deduction purposes.  Insurance coverage is often available to those who have extended health benefits.  For example; Federal government workers approved by Canada Life for $5000/yr, RCMP and Military members approved by Blue Cross for >$2000/yr, and many others. Unfortunately, counselling and coaching services are not covered by OHIP.
Clients claim services under “psychological services”.  MVA (motor vehicle accident) victims are funded through their car insurance.  Please inquire with your health insurance provider regarding the details of your coverage.  
Details to ask insurance representative about:
*  the yearly limit, *  who in family is covered, *  verify therapy by a Registered Psychotherapist (CRPO certified) is covered.     
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2396 Iris St.,  Ottawa,  K2C 1C6  
Feel invited to call for help to let go, relax, grow personally, and move forward. Ottawa, psychotherapist.